Cougars, MILFs, sugar mommas.
Call them what you will but as much as players change, the game remains the same.
A giver & a taker.
That is one of the most basic fundamentals in relationships.
One person just wants and does keep on giving.
One person just wants and does keep on taking.
The person with more money is at risk of being used for their money.
But then again, the trade off of a few sparkly gifts for youthful exuberance might not be such a bad one.
The young hot summer bunny, is at risk of being loved for only the way that they look.
But in exchange for a few (or many) sparkly gifts, that's not necessarily such a bad exchange.
Money makes the world go round and money is the root of all evil. Some guys marry certain women for their cash, some women marry men for their cash. Some people, know their youth is all they have to work with so they always pick someone way older. Whatever floats your little boat.
People just need to man up and at least be honest with themselves as to why they're in the situations they're in.
No point telling your boys, you're in love with the crusty old heffa who just happens to live in a huge pad, sends you off to her Kensington flat on the regular and hands you the keys to her CLS without being prompted.
But if you ARE in love with the crusty old heffa, don't lie to yourself about it and allow what could be a good relationship to be crushed under the weight of society's expectations.
Because at the end of the day, as much as the hoi polloi might want to say they knew first, don't make the mistake of thinking anybody actually cares.
Just remember, no matter how good or bad things might look on paper, after the party jollof has been eaten, there's only two of you that have to find a way to co-exist in that big shiny house with the big shiny toys.
You can run but you can't hide.
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Kai. For me to knob an old heifer or cougar for money? I'll need to be constantly drunk, on prescription drugs (plus fake viagra). In fact even with all of the above I won't make it.
ReplyDeleteIt easy for women who just have to lie back for maybe three minutes and think of Brad Pitt or jewelry while the old rich bugger is trying to do her. For men, we need to be inspired before it springs up and money just can't do that. Neither do boobs that face south.
How do you know its easier for women to deal with a wrinkly ass than it is for men?
ReplyDeletePerhaps, perhaps, perhaps its just because the old man/young woman thing is more acceptable than the other way round as a means of getting ahead in life.