I watched an episode of Cashmere Mafia in which the ladies were looking for a lover for one of the 'stick up her arse red head' (not so up on their names yet) after she had discovered her another one of her husband’s numerous affairs. Anyhoo they find the perfect man for this character and google him and voila all this wonderful information comes up complete with gorgeous picture! Realistic?
Well, every good author has to research their material so I got a friend to try and it and we found some information about a guy she had recently met online and yes, there he was pictures and all – including the fact that he is well and truly attached!
What a bummer eh? I think that is the problem right there – you never know what you gonna find and no, it won’t be a nice box chocolates either!
I heard about someone who found the divorce papers of her boyfriend online. She knew he was divorced but the reasons he gave were quite different to the ones in the document. The questions now is who to believe? Him? Or, this lady she had never met? How many of us would ask him about it without feeling like stalkers or having the guy say, “You did what? I feel so violated! I don’t know if I can trust you any more!”
So guess what did she do? Absolutely nothing…
What would you have done?
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what's the point of having access to information if your not going to use it.. if you seek information seek it for a purpose.... you're in a relationship you get information thats accessible to the anyone and it conflicts with what you think you know, if he has nothing to hide, then raise it and deal with your truth
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