Picture this… Boy meets girl one fine evening, they hit it off and start dating. But boy is a player and meets another girl who he also gets on with and he starts dating her too!
You’ve all heard this before eh? So what? Guys do it all the time….well it gets better. Turns out the girls are friends – not best friends but friends who meet up occasionally for a drink. Fast forward two to three months and boy starts acting up with girl no. 2 - turns up late for dates or is a no show; has fantastic excuses – I got mugged but I managed to chase him down and get him arrested; eased off on the marriage talk etc etc . (Red flag!! If a guy makes a sudden change for no good reason; you haven’t argued etc, he is up to no good) Of course she is puzzled, hurt etc, but girlfriend is not about to be dumped and she can see it coming so she sets up a meeting with boy and nips it in the bud.
A week after the ‘end of the affair’ girls hook up to catch up and First Girlfriend in a state of confusion, guilt whatever you want to call it, confesses that she is with the guy, had found out about him seeing her friend – which he promptly denied saying Second Girlfriend was delusional, chasing after him and that he certainly wasn’t dating her..(Red flag!! If a guy disses a girl you ask him about, he is into her or hitting it) and, she believed of course because she had known him for a whole 3 months - a lifetime compared to the 10 years she had known her friend! Of course! But she just had to tell her friend all about it and she and boy were in love blah blah blah…
Needless to say, they didn’t last long either! I mean seriously! True story though…
So tell me, who is the bigger scoundrel?
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ReplyDeleteI have found myself in a situation like this before. My ocassional girlfriend was dating my one time bf.
ReplyDeleteShe found out that we were dating, came to me with the story. I denied. (Why did I do that, cos bf has another girl that I know that he is dating too and have something up my sleeve).
So girlfriend was happy that we werent dating. Asked me to see her off to the guys place .We went pronto. he was nervous and I acted all cool. Girlfriend found out about the other girl later and she was hurt!
BF came to beg blah blah blah but I cut him off. He is up to no good
I will always check out my girls story against a man's even if he's my husband. Is better not to dismiss things one can sort out in order not to end up being the scoundrel
Hear hear StandTall! The truth will set you free! Better to find out and then take a decision and it is totally up to you if you choose to stay with a scoundrel. The point is you know what you are getting into and have to take whatever comes.
ReplyDeleteThe guy is a sorry excuse for a scoundrel. A true scoundrel never gets caught until he is done and gone. He is the kind of guy a girl breaks up with for petty reason only to find out later on there were several other nasty reasons she should have left the bugger for.. As for the girl? Well, when women stop using love as an excuse for their bad behavior or for accepting crap a guy gives them all these problems will ease up a little...
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